* BBC choice. Radio 4 had a program (which I must admit I didn't listen to, except the into) about the difficult choice a Dominican Friar had to choose between his boyfriend and the monastic celibate life. Well I don't know about you but if I was gay and intended to lead a religious celibate life, then living amongst a load of men in a males only environment wouldn't be top of my list. If you heard a hetero-sexual male friend intended to lead a celibate life in a convent (not of course that it would be allowed) you might recommend he have a re-think. Well I guess gay sex won as he now makes religious programs. This is the sort of crap the BBC loves.